Take Responsibility from Jonathen Cumming's Blog
As a bareback porn star and someone who is a bottom who barebacks in his personal life I want to talk about the importance of getting tested and taking responsibility for your life. As someone who barebacks I know the risks and willing to face the risks of HIV and other STD's any disease or evening getting HIV would be my fault and no one else's that I contracted a STD. Even is someone were to lie about their status it is your fault if you contracted a STD because you are the one who makes the conscience choice to bareback. There are also many who don't care if they get the HIV virus or not, others who want it, and many who don't know their status.
I encourage everyone to know their status and get tested regularly. For those bottoms who love taking a creamy load up the ass, make sure you use plenty of lube and lube your hole well in order to prevent ripping, its only when a rip occurs at the opening that there is a chance to receive the virus otherwise just depositing it in your ass you could take hundreds of poz loads and with out the rip you would still remain safe. Tops have less to worry about when they are topping a POZ bottom, unless the top has cuts on his penis and comes in contact with a rip in the bottom hes topping he has slim to no chance receiving the bottom. I am not going to tell people to use condoms but I will tell people to Take Responsibility.
I get so frustrated when people play the victim and said he lied to me and are angry with the person who infected them when you are the one who chose to bareback and be the bottom. Again I am poz friendly but have remained negative. I know all the risks for my own actions and everything is my own fault. I'm allergic to condoms and I enjoy the feel of being fucked naturally so even if someone lied to me about their status I know the risks of my actions and would only be able to find blame in myself. By saying this I'm not giving permission for people to lie about their status I think people still need to be honest with their partners about their status and get tested regularly and know your status. For those who don't care even you need to know your status so you can get the help you need when if you are POZ and people have the right to know your status even though they should go in with the mind set everyone one you bareback with is POZ especially you are the bottom.
And take this philosophy in life with anything, Know your risks, know all possible outcomes and know in the end except for certain circumstances beyond your control you are responsible for your own actions. PLEASE GET TESTED REGULARLY and HAVE FUN. There are many places you can go to in your area for free or reduced price testing but regardless don't put a price on not getting tested. If you honestly can't afford it, contact me and I will pay for your test for you. I won't send you money but i will call and pay for your test for you. So no Excuses.
REAL MEN HAVE INTEGRITY- Integrity separates the Men from the Boys- Make integrity to yourself and others the most important thing in your life
I encourage everyone to know their status and get tested regularly. For those bottoms who love taking a creamy load up the ass, make sure you use plenty of lube and lube your hole well in order to prevent ripping, its only when a rip occurs at the opening that there is a chance to receive the virus otherwise just depositing it in your ass you could take hundreds of poz loads and with out the rip you would still remain safe. Tops have less to worry about when they are topping a POZ bottom, unless the top has cuts on his penis and comes in contact with a rip in the bottom hes topping he has slim to no chance receiving the bottom. I am not going to tell people to use condoms but I will tell people to Take Responsibility.
I get so frustrated when people play the victim and said he lied to me and are angry with the person who infected them when you are the one who chose to bareback and be the bottom. Again I am poz friendly but have remained negative. I know all the risks for my own actions and everything is my own fault. I'm allergic to condoms and I enjoy the feel of being fucked naturally so even if someone lied to me about their status I know the risks of my actions and would only be able to find blame in myself. By saying this I'm not giving permission for people to lie about their status I think people still need to be honest with their partners about their status and get tested regularly and know your status. For those who don't care even you need to know your status so you can get the help you need when if you are POZ and people have the right to know your status even though they should go in with the mind set everyone one you bareback with is POZ especially you are the bottom.
And take this philosophy in life with anything, Know your risks, know all possible outcomes and know in the end except for certain circumstances beyond your control you are responsible for your own actions. PLEASE GET TESTED REGULARLY and HAVE FUN. There are many places you can go to in your area for free or reduced price testing but regardless don't put a price on not getting tested. If you honestly can't afford it, contact me and I will pay for your test for you. I won't send you money but i will call and pay for your test for you. So no Excuses.
REAL MEN HAVE INTEGRITY- Integrity separates the Men from the Boys- Make integrity to yourself and others the most important thing in your life
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